Question number #1
Being Single:
1. I can go out every time
2. I can buy anything I want (as long as I can afford it)
3. No worries about utility bills
4. No worries about the future
5. More time with friends
6. Shopping and Night out
7. Kikay

Being Married:

1. So many responsibilities
2. Needs to save some money
3. Needs first before wants
4. Happier
5. Matured
6. more time with my hubby
7. You have to worry about the utility bills.
8. More matured talks
9. Need to know more about men’s stuff, like testoripped and others, to be able to understand my husband’s need

Question number #2
1. I designate specific times of the day/night for blogging (but wasn’t able to follow it) or start each day with a pri­or­i­tized to-do list. Decide how much time you should be spend­ing on social media each day, and limit your­self to that amount of time. But I end up more time with Plurk, Facebook and Twitter than doing my tasks.
2. Plan your de-stress periods throughout the day. In the middle of my busy blogging schedule, I always find time to stretch, take some deep breaths and sometimes watch a movie with my husband.
3. Stick to your game plan. But most of the time, I end up being the first one to bend this rule. hahaha!

Did I answer question number 2? hahaha. Good thing, my husband is now a full time blogger, he’s willing to help me with all my backlogs. hihihi

This is the easy way and the fastest way to :
1. Make your Authority Technorati explode.
2. Increase your Google Page Rank.
3. Get more traffic to your blog.
4. Makes more new friends.Rules :

1. Start copy from “Begin Copy” until “End Copy” to your blog.
2. Put your own blog name and link.
3. Tag your friends as much as you can.

1. Picturing of Life 2. Juliana’s Site 3. Hazel-My Life, My Hope, My Future.4. Jeanne-The Callalily Space5.My Family is my Life 6. The Simple Life of a Baghag 7. On A Wonderful Day Like Today 8. House Everything 9. The Creativity in Me 10. Travel and Photography 11. Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow 12. You Are My Sunshine 13.Song to Remember 14. Super Blog 15. Philiippine Tv Marathon 16.Simply Blue 17. Breaking the Boundaries 18. Top Five 19. A Simple Life 20. Simple Happy Life 21.Mom’s Special Diary 22. The Mommy Journey 23. Mom Writes for a Cause 24.Earthlingorgeous.com 25. Ohmski 26. Pinay Ads 27. 27. Aeirin’s Collections, 28. Biz N Honey , 29. techsterr 30. YOU ARE NEXT!

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Now, I’m passing this tag to Mommy Ruby, Mommy Arlene, Mommy Mitch, Mommy Jen, Mommy Joy, Mommy Luchie, Sis Zerisse

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Mommy Cara and Mommy Charm, avail of the Spa Treatments listed above by joining this tag…Enjoy and have fun.

Thanks Mommy Arlene and Kerslyn for this award.They all are charmed with the blogs, where in the majority of its aims are to show the marvels and to do friendship; there are persons who are not interested when we give them a prize and then they help to cut these bows; do we want that they are cut or that they propagate? Then let’s try to give more attention to them! So with this prize we must deliver it to 8 bloggers that in turn must make the same thing and put this text.

Now, I’m giving this award to:
Praning’s Shoutout
Momma Wannabee
Mommy Maybel
Mommy Elvz
Little Zoie’s Step
Faerydancing
Lourdes Mia
Ria stevenson

Thanks Mommy Arlene for this award… mwah.. Now, I’m passing this award to Maicel, Maybel,

This tag came from Maicel. Thanks Mommy.

The rules are posted at the beginning. At the end of the post, the player tags 6 people and posts their names, then go to their blog and leave a comment, letting them know they’ve been tagged and asking them to read your blog. Let the person who tagged you know when you’ve posted your answer.

1. What was I doing 10 years ago?
>> I was 16 years old. Maybe, I was at school doing some projects.

2. What are 5 things on my to-do list today?
>>clean the house, finish my opps, update my blogs, finish designing a tarpauline, sleep

3. Snacks I enjoy:
>> Cheese curls

4. Places I’ve lived:
>>Philippines…. Manila, Binangonan, Cainta, Antipolo

5. Things I’d do if I were a billionaire:
>> I’ll buy a house, put up a business

6. People I want to know more about:
>>some online buddies…. Mommy Ruby, Mommy Arlene, Mommy Mitch, Chelle, Mommy Cielo, and Zriz

My roommate and I once: I never had a roommate.
Never in my life have I: bungee jumping because I’m afraid of heights
High school was: fun experience
when I’m nervous: I sweat a lot
My hair: long and straight

When I was 5: I was playful kid
When I turn my head left: I see my white wall
I should be: sleeping

By this time next year: I wish I already have a baby.
My favorite aunt is: Tita Marivic.
I have a hard time understanding: some men.
You know I like you if: I always talk to you.
My ideal breakfast is: pancakes and bacon
If you visit my home town: you will eat lots of bibingka. lol

If you spend the night at my house: we are online all night
The animal I would like to see flying besides birds: pig. hahaha
I shouldn’t have been: sitting all day
Last night I: slept for 7 hours
A better name for me would be: aeirin
I’ve been told I look like: LJ Moreno when I was in college, but not anymore. I look like Ruby Rodriguez now
If I could have any car, it would be: a Ford Mustang

Now, I’m tagging Mommy Ruby and Mommy Arlene

For this week’s question, “When you were younger, did you set an ideal age to marry?”

My answer is yes. When I was young, I wanted to get married at the age of 25, and to have my first born child at the age of 26 to 27. Because when you are in twenties, you’re young enough to cope physically with the demands of a new baby.

Anyway, I turned 25 last year of April. Though my hubby (he was my boyfriend that time) and I have plans of getting married in December of 2007, it was impossible because we don’t have enough money. However on October 2007, my mom told us that I should live together with my hubby because of some family problems. Since my hubby and I have condo, we immediately agreed. But my relatives did not agree on the “live-in” idea. Mga nakikialam, in short. So, November of 2007, we decided to get married in December. Gastos lahat ng parents ko at in-laws.

That’s the reason why I get married at the age of 25, my ideal age to marry. Now, my goal is to have a baby soon…….

Would you allow your child to go out on a date at an early age (as early as 16)? What do you think you’d feel about it if one day your child would ask you “Ma, can I got out on Friday night with….?

When I was still young, my mom always tells me not to go on a date or to have a boyfriend until I’m 18 years old. But since she has a “pasaway” or hard headed daughter, I did not listen to her. I had my first relationship when I was in 6th grade, I was only 12 years old. Though it was just a puppy love.

I had my serious relationship when I was in college. One of my college days, my mom talked to me about having a boyfriend. She told me she would allow me to have a relationship as long as I’ll introduce the guy to her, so I did. I was expecting she will accept my boyfriend, but it did not happen. On that same day and in front of my boyfriend, she hit me with an umbrella, she dragged me to my room and she said so many hurtful words to me. I was grounded for a week. She took my cellphone, my phone, even my PC. Because of so much hate and confusion, I left the house when they were asleep. I said to myself, I will never go back to that house again. But after a few days, they were begging for me to go home. We had a talk and after a few days, my mom and I are in good terms again.

To tell you honestly that experience haunt me for a long time. I guess I was traumatized on that experience, because my next relationships were all in secret. I was afraid to tell my mom. I envied those girls who can talk to their moms about their boyfriend. There was a time, I broke up with my boyfriend and I had no one to talk to about it. I wanted to tell my mom about my problem but I can’t. I know she was just worrying about me, and I don’t hate her. She made me a better person.

But from that traumatic experience, I promised to myself that if I’ll have a daughter, I want her to be open with me. I want to be her best friend so she can tell everything to me. If she has a problem, she can talk to me so i can give her some advices. So to answer the question, I say yes. With proper guidance, I will allow my daughter to go on a date at an early age.

When I saw this photo, the first thing that came to my mind was “Is this in Manila?” You want to know why? Because, every time I’m in Manila, I see these little girls roaming around wearing an undershirt and an underwear. I hope their parents know what are the risks of leaving their children unattended. There are so many bad guys around us.

I heard there are groups or gangs that stole kids like her and make the children their workers. They force the children to roam in the streets and beg for money, then the children are forced to hand over their daily earnings.

If I have a child. I will never leave my child alone or unattended. I remember a real story of a 4-year-old British girl stolen from her hotel room. Her parents left her with her 2-year-old twin siblings asleep in their hotel room while her parents dined at a poolside restaurant just seconds away. I think it happened last year, but until now the parents have no clue where she is.

If I am the mother of that kid, I would not have left her unattended. It would not have mattered where I was. Same with the kid on the picture (above). Her parents should take care of her child. Parents should protect their children from harm anywhere and anytime.

Being Single:
1. I can go out every time
2. I can buy anything I want (as long as I can afford it)
3. No worries about utility bills
4. No worries about the future
5. More time with friends
6. Shopping and Night out

Being Married:
1. So many responsibilities
2. Needs to save some money
3. Needs first before wants
4. Happier
5. Matured
6. more time with my hubby
7. You have to do household chores
8. You have to worry about the utility bills.

To be honest, I was lazy when I was single. I don’t do household chores. Most of the times, I was out with my friends, and didn’t care how much money I spend in a day.

But I got married a few months ago, I can say I already changed for the better. I am more responsible. I can cook now, but my husband is a better cook that’s why I let him do it. I learned how to hand-wash our clothes, clean our small house, and other household chores. I’m more worried about budgeting our money, I don’t want to (and I can’t) ask my mom for money. I’m trying to budget our money, so bye bye shopping and night outs.

And since we don’t have kids yet, I have more time for blogging and of course more time with my husband. Though, I admit sometimes I miss my single life, but I’m getting a hang of married life. I’m just worried about motherhood.

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